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He Doesn't Want Others to Think He's Weird or Perverted Being a Furry
I have not really been part of this fandom for a long time, but I really want to get involved. I just feel like too many people will think that I'm weird, or perverted.
Cheshire Cat
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Dear Cheshire,
I understand. I don't think there are many furries out there who have not struggled with the fear of rejection by non-furry family, friends, and associates. Human beings have an innate desire to be accepted by others because we are social animals. We judge ourselves, therefore, against the touchstone of what is considered "normal" in our culture and age. We should first consider that this standard has been malleable over time. Right now, in 21st-century America, we are somewhere, morally, between Puritan New England and the height of the Roman Empire. If you compare furry behavior to what was acceptable back in Rome (if you watch that video), you'd find yourself to be extremely tame.
What I'm getting at is that the problem is not your sense of what is proper but rather how it compares to others. So, the question is, who is in charge of your life? You or society? If society is in charge, then it will prevent you from having fun and participating in the fandom. If you are in charge of your life and destiny, then you will do what you enjoy and have a happier life.
The other factor has to do with whether or not you are open about your furriness. Many choose to be furry and not tell family members, and others have good relationships with parents etc. and go ahead and tell them. You might also be surprised by how many people are actually fine with your being a furry. I always think of my friend Tycho Aussie, who told his coworkers and they enjoy him fursuiting in the office; another example is the Furry Cruise off the coast of Florida. Furries share the ship with non-furries and the mundanes love it.
Often, though, the best way to do talk with mundanes who don't understand the deeper psychological and spiritual aspects of it, is to just talk about it in terms of costuming fun. Compare it to, say, Star Trek fans or to people who like to dress up as zombies on Halloween. If you aren't a fursuiter, you can compare it to all the literature and movies out there that feature anthro characters and that mundanes find perfectly acceptable (Disney films spring to mind). For example, when I showed my very conservative mother my fursuit, I just told her it was for mascot work and that it was just a fun thing for me to do and she was okay with it, even bored by it. So, when explaining this stuff to unexposed mundanes, just do it in terms you think they'll understand and don't try to tell them in terms furries relate to.
Good luck! Stay Furry!
Papabear
Mons the Cat
It is safe to say this is many of us yesterday…. I’m still almost starving.
Scalemail Dragon suit by Tamed Wolf Productions
No! I don't want to join you for dinner!
My first anthro drawing, what do you think?
Ducks from Russia
Here’s something for Thanksgiving: More birds! Now it’s Quackers, a new CGI animated film on its way from Russia’s Rome Animation and Film Studio. (Rome or not, it’s from Russia.) “A conflict flares up between local Mandarin Ducks and the Military Mallards who land on the Chinese island, mistaking it for Hawaii. While the fathers fight and argue, Longway, the Emperor’s son, and Erica, the commander’s daughter, meet and become friends. The kids must ally all the ducks to battle their foe, the daunting Ms. Knout, who seeks to destroy the Sun.” Got all that? Directed by Viktor Lakisov and due in 2016, Quackers has its own official web site, as well as a preview video up on Vimeo.

image c. 2014 Rome Animation & Film Studio
looking for furry games
probably been asked a million times already but i'm super bored so please help. Bonus points points if the game isn't combat based. Morenatsu is all i've been able to find and it was most excellent but i think i've already gotten all the entertainment i am out of it.
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Yarn tail just in time for Thanksgiving!
MFF is coming, and there is something you may want to know.
If you are of drinking age, there is a liquor store near the MFF hotel called rosemont liquors....and they DELIVER to the hotel. Also if you mention you are with the convention the will offer to give you a miniature bottle of spirit, and will also offer 5% off orders of $100 or more. Since the convention does not with to advertise this deal as a organization since it is a moral grey area. However it is available, and if you don't believe me it's fine there is nothing to lose on your end if you were going to call them anyway for booze delivery.
submitted by StreetFur[link] [19 comments]
How do you summon your fursona?
Personally, I summon mine by putting a gun-shaped object to my head, but I hear some people like to crush tarot cards (watch like 3 people get this).
submitted by GuardianKing[link] [37 comments]