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submitted by hexperiment
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Papabear,

So I've been friends with at least two furs here in my town, and one of them recently introduced me to another one, named Rahne. I met him a few days ago, and after we goofed around a bit, we started fooling around. He had said that he was looking for "friends with benefits" and I was cool with that, even though I had mentioned that I have been single for 5 give months now. 

Well, recently (as in a few days ago), he asked what I looked for in mate. I told him, and he nodded. He's been wanting to hang out as much as possible. And I always feel a bit uncomfortable about it. Mainly because I've been trying to balance work, family and friends. But I'm not sure if he's considered dating me.

I mean, he's nice, sweet, funny, hot, and a gamer like me. But I keep getting nervous when he asks to hang out more and such. I'm not sure if he is "the One,” but I'm scared that the more I let nervousness take hold, that I'll just push him away. How do I get over my nervousness so that I can enjoy my time with him?

Jesse (age 21)

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Dear Jesse,

Have you explored why you are nervous? It can’t be because this is your first relationship, since you’re 21 and implied you have been in relationships before. So, my guess, though you don’t say it, is that you have been burned in earlier relationships and now you’re gun shy.

Based solely on what you’ve written here, this guy seems like a pretty good match for you. You share interests, he’s nice, and you find him physically attractive. In my book, those are the Big Three: good personality, compatibility, and physical desirability. What more could you want?

To get over your nervousness, you must explore what it is about a relationship that scares you. Are you afraid of failing at it? Are you afraid of being hurt? Are you, after five month, simply not ready, emotionally and mentally, for a new serious relationship and need a little more time for yourself? If the latter, I can understand that. You might just not be ready yet, which is okay. Don’t rush into things and, if the new guy starts to press you, explain to him that you aren’t prepared for that yet.

If it is a matter of being afraid, this is psychologically understandable, too. However, if you ever wish to have another committed relationship again in your life, you’ll need to overcome this. You can start by realizing that just because you had a bad experience before doesn’t guarantee you will again. You need to give the new guy a chance to prove himself.

A common mistake when people get into relationships is moving too fast. For example, leaping into bed or saying “I love you” before you really feel it deep inside. (Although, judging by your agreement to be friends with benefits, it sounds like you already had sex—a faux pas in my opinion, if that has occurred already; how far did the "fooling around" go?). Even so, just because this guy has an interest in you doesn’t mean you have to commit to something right away. Go slowly. Have a few friendly one-on-one dates in public places before moving to a more intimate setting, like your home (where have you been "hanging out"?) Don’t freak yourself out by asking yourself if he’s “The One.” Don’t put yourself on some artificial deadline that you must decide what your status will be right now. He might the one; he might not be. There’s no hurry to find out. Chill a bit and don’t psych yourself out. Enjoy the ride before you get to the destination.

Good luck!

Papabear

Author: Papabear, I am 19. Through the course of my life people have made me believe it’s the year of golden opportunity for me something that defines my life forever. And I’m not doing anything with it. I wanted to go to college, but due to circumstances that didn’t work. So instead I wanted to […]

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Hi everyone! So, I have been interested in the furry community for a while now, my best friend is one and I really like the community he talks to and they seem really interesting. I wanted to give it a try, seeing as I have thought of myself as an animal before (a dog or a fox :> ) and I really like the thought. I'm really new to this so I am not sure I am even going about this right! Anyways, I wanted to introduce myself and hopefully meet some really cool people!

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Music video for Beast by Agnes Obel, the lesson here is that if you do find yourself lured into the underworld make sure you know a bunny-demon-luck dragon-ish… thing.

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submitted by DoorbellDhole
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I have been mentioning it for months. And now it's time to hear the furry musicians who took the first Fuzzy Notes Artist Challenge to write a song with only one rule: it must somehow convey the concept of 'Radio Silence. Six artists entered - AC Fox, Ambery, Asid Rayne, Chequz, Lunescale, Odin's Disciple - and we have some amazing music written specifically for this special episode of Fuzzy Notes! In addition, the songs were judged on three factors - Creativity, Relevance to the 'Radio Silence' theme, and what can only be described as 'How excited the song made us!' And by us, I mean me and our two special judges: Psyrus, a furry musician featured many times on Fuzzy Notes with her band Of Summer, and Amber Bell, who works in the Canadian music industry in radio tracking and promotions! We also have two amazing additional tracks: a new song from Of Summers' upcoming EP 'The End Of Summers' and another awesome instrumental teaser from Pacific//Hotline, a new collaboration between two very talented furs who are currently running an IndieGoGo campaign to put together their first EP! PACIFIC//HOTLINE IndieGoGo Campaign: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/help-make-pacific-hotline-s-debut-ep-a-smash-hit Hear six great songs, all winners...but also which song got the highest scores from our judges! The winner receives their very own Coda episode of Fuzzy Notes as well as a prize pack...and of course, bragging rights for winning the first Fuzzy Notes Artist Challenge! THE MUSIC: Checqz - Goodbye * FA: http://www.furaffinity.net/user/checqz/ * Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/checqz AC Fox - Letting Go * FA: http://www.furaffinity.net/user/heyacfox * Bandcamp: http://acfox.bandcamp.com/ * Twitter: https://twitter.com/heyacfox Asid Rayne - Night Time Ambience * Soundcloud: http://soundcloud.com/asid-rayne * Twitter: http://twitter.com/Tun_Dra_Gon Of Summers - Realization (EP out July 15th) * Bandcamp: http://ofsummers.bandcamp.com Pacific//Hotline - Flood (Preview) * Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/pacific-hotline Lunescale - Radio Silence * FA: http://furaffinity.net/user/lunescale Ambery - Radio Silence (Copa Do Mundo) * FA: http://www.furaffinity.net/user/ambery/ * Bandcamp: http://ambery.bandcamp.com Odin's Disciple - Dusty Eyes * Bandcamp: http://odinsdisciple.bandcamp.com * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ODINsDiscipleMusicalLaboratory HOUSEKEEPING: FUZZY NOTES FAN CHALLENGE: This one's easy, a way to show support to furry musicians without spending a penny. * Go to the Fur Affinity account of artist you enjoyed in this episode and watch them! * Go to a track you enjoyed and favourite it! * Let an artist know what you like about their music by writing a comment on the track! * Share your favourite song of the episode on Facebook or Twitter! In other words, take the few seconds it takes to share what you think about the music you love so that others will see that the musician has got some love! The furry world is very art and story centric, but we have some great musicians who I 'know' have fans! It's time for us fans to treat the music we love like the art we love! EASY! FIND ROO TO GIVE HIM MUSIC! * Twitter: http://twitter.com/Potoroo * Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/FuzzyNotes * Fuzzy Notes Dropbox: http://soundcloud.com/fuzzy-notes/dropbox While you're at it, please give Fuzzy Notes a review on iTunes or Podomatic...it helps us get furry musicians to more ears. Which is the whole point, isn't it?? * Android/RSS Feed: http://fuzzynotes.podomatic.com/rss2.xml * iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/id581600769 * Podomatic: http://fuzzynotes.podomatic.com Also find Fuzzy Notes on Stitcher Smart Radio! Fuzzy Notes 75 - 'Radio Silence' Artist Challenge - I have been mentioning it for months. And now it's time to hear the furry musicians who took the ...

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Hello all! This is the first time I've ever made a post here so sorry if I make any silly mistakes! c: I'm Kepidemic or Kepii for short! How are you all doing?

I'm Kepidemic over on Fur Affinity and as the title says I'm also doing Iron Artist commissions at the moment if anyone's interested :D

http://www.furaffinity.net/user/kepidemic/

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submitted by Sirlach
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That's it, where do I get it from/where can I play it? (In English of course)

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