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submitted by NoctisIgnem
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submitted by 00vapour
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Hello Papabear,

So, I came out to my everyone about a year ago, primarily because I fell In love with a boy. We've “played around” quite a bit. I always manage to bring him to climax, but not me:/. Recently, however, we decided to try anal for the first time. We took all the necessary precautions (lube, comfortable position and everything). I was sure that I would Finally be able to make love to my mate properly, but after being in him for about 15 minutes I wasn't any closer to orgasm. He seemed a little disappointed (I don't know why I can’t cum in him! Could it be that I'm just nervous? Or is it something else? I don't know if you’ve ever had issues like that ... anyway, thank you for your time, Papabear.

Sincerely,

Luka (age 19)

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Hi, Luka,

It’s not uncommon to have occasional problems with climaxing during lovemaking, but it seems to be a chronic disappointment for you. This, in addition to the fact that you are only 19 and should definitely not be struggling with impotence yet, tells me something else is going on. It could be a health issue, which I doubt, but just in case you might want to talk to your doctor if you suspect you might have a medical problem (diabetes, for example). More likely, it is psychological (remember, 90% of sexual stimulation occurs within the mind). You say you always get him to climax, but you don’t reach orgasm, whether it is anal or otherwise. (BTW, I hope your "precautions" included a condom.)

Two things: 1) it could be that you are just nervous or anxious about your performance, or 2) it could be that you are simply not stimulated by your partner enough to get you off. You are the only one who can answer these questions. In your letter, you ask me whether you are nervous. I don’t know, are you? Have you been nervous every time you and your partner made love? If so, you need to explore that and learn how to overcome your nervousness. If that is all it is, the problem is not too serious and you just need to learn to relax. Talk to your partner about performance.

Clearly, you satisfy him, so you shouldn’t be anxious about pleasing him. Perhaps you are so worried about his pleasure that you forget about your own? Or, could it be that your partner is all taker and no giver? What does he do to please you? This all relates to #2. Sex is not just about one partner being happy; both partners should seek to pleasure the other (not because they have to but because they enjoy doing so). Assuming you find him physically attractive (and, if you don’t, that could definitely be the explanation), then you might need to teach him how to make you reach orgasm. Don’t be embarrassed about that: communication in the bedroom is something all partners should practice. For you, it might not be enough simply to mount your partner. Many people have mental triggers (often fantasies they find stimulating) that get them excited. What might yours be? Asking your partner to indulge the mental half of your sexual needs could be the answer to your sticky situation.

Hugs,

Papabear

submitted by mayupvoterandomly
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submitted by ToxisFaux
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submitted by DrDodie
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submitted by Yiffing_Time
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I notice I'm liking a ton of art relating to furries. Anything recomended I do before I may start considering myself a furry?

Edit: Welp, It's official! XD

submitted by animefreak412
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Author: Haya Papa Bear, I have a problem.  I have a very indecisive personality and it normally Isn’t such a bad thing, but lately I have had so much trouble with sticking to one character as my fursona. I am never happy with it and when I finally am … I change anyway as something […]

submitted by LoganGrey182
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How is this for weird? Here is a song by Lemon Demon about an old paranormal story about a talking Mongoose named Gef? The lyrics are all the various things this mongoose was reported as saying.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gef

submitted by NoctisIgnem
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I found a restricted weasyl image so I decided to add weasyl support. To my surprise, weasyl allows OpenID login which eased my work a lot.

Things that work:

• Mirroring pictures
• Blacklisting (reddit)
• Profile link
• Tags

Things that don't (yet):

• Profile link (weasyl) Done!
• Tags (weasyl) Done!
• Blacklisting (FA/Weasyl)

Thanks to <redacted> for asking for a blacklist and proving the blacklisting system was broken. :P
The new weasyl module caused a 4h downtime, now solved, so please report any bugs!
Coders welcome (Python3, praw and some GoF)

Refer to /r/furaffinitybot for blackilisting and questions.
Source code and bug tracker available on bitbucket.

submitted by fa_mirror
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So, quite some time ago, I came across this video, of a fox dancing, the music was epic, and animation was all hand drawn, black and white. THe fox danced to a ceremony, using a staff to light torches, and at the end, she brings a little fox back to life, only to lose her own to so. I really want to find this video, and any help would be appreciated =3

submitted by Archlinder
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submitted by HappyWulf
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submitted by Sindri_de_Danaan
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Aired 3/25 at 3pm EST. Commercials edited out except for one at 28:30, a dog food commercial comparing dogs to their grey wolf ancestors (technically, your dog is a subspecies of the grey wolf)

https://mega.co.nz/#!Np5yVa7K!cr8K-WurR4q1iUdHpupMa6pEpSOdZ4e4_3fS-Xdo6AY

submitted by BasementFox
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submitted by JoJoJoshua
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submitted by Sparklepaws
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